I can't fathom the kind of hate that would compel someone to come to long Island all the way from Kansas, to hold up signs that says "God Hates Fags." And to bring your kids? These little ones given to your trust, and you teach them to hate? They're holding up signs and spouting unspeakable things, instead of playing with their toys and sleeping in a warm bed? I don't understand any of this.
I'm always torn when it comes to people like this. My first instinct is to ignore them, but then there's the idea of "for evil to triumph, the only requirement is for good people to do nothing." Is it strategic or just cowardly (or lazy) to ignore something like this? Are the F--- P-----es of the world looking for attention, or is there another agenda? So then my reaction is to yell back, because what they say and represent gets me so viscerally. But realistically I know that wouldn't accomplish anything--you'd have two people yelling instead of one. But I don't think I'm evolved enough to return love for hate. I know I should but that's really hard. I have a very difficult time with the whole "turn of the other cheek" of the Christian philosophy. I am a warrior. Maybe the struggle against hatred requires teachers and people who love, and not warriors. Maybe I should beat my sword back into a plowshare.
I'm always torn when it comes to people like this. My first instinct is to ignore them, but then there's the idea of "for evil to triumph, the only requirement is for good people to do nothing." Is it strategic or just cowardly (or lazy) to ignore something like this? Are the F--- P-----es of the world looking for attention, or is there another agenda? So then my reaction is to yell back, because what they say and represent gets me so viscerally. But realistically I know that wouldn't accomplish anything--you'd have two people yelling instead of one. But I don't think I'm evolved enough to return love for hate. I know I should but that's really hard. I have a very difficult time with the whole "turn of the other cheek" of the Christian philosophy. I am a warrior. Maybe the struggle against hatred requires teachers and people who love, and not warriors. Maybe I should beat my sword back into a plowshare.
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Date: 2003-10-29 11:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-29 11:42 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-29 12:09 pm (UTC)Need more coffee, apparently
Date: 2003-10-29 12:20 pm (UTC)You're probably right about their education, but it's not certain. I'll agree that it is fairly certain they're not being exposed to a wealth of different opinions at home.
Re: Need more coffee, apparently
Date: 2003-10-29 12:38 pm (UTC)Re: Need more coffee, apparently
Date: 2003-10-29 12:50 pm (UTC)Sometimes the attempt to is admirable (I think children could do with a bit less exposure to violence in television and popular music) and sometimes it's wrong.
Like it or not, it's for the family to decide.
This brings up an interesting philosophical question, however: does indoctrination guarantee permanent acceptance of the doctrine, or is there something in the human character that is stronger and leads us eventually to question what we've been told?
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Date: 2003-10-29 12:25 pm (UTC)The society surrounding them will also have the opportunity to influence the children, directly or indirectly. If their "church" consists of 10 people, at some point they will have to interact with the outside world.
It is unfortunate that the children cannot be taken away from their parents on abuse grounds simply because they are being taught to hate. There are people on this planet who should not be allowed to take care of little ones.
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Date: 2003-10-29 12:34 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-10-29 01:06 pm (UTC)The law in this country as defined by the Courts is that being a parent is a fundamental right. However, the rest of us in society at large have to deal with the consequences of the improper people having and raising children. Thus, if do not want to deal with "damaged children" (term used only to refer to those children to whom the incorrect and improper teachings have imparted by ignorant parents), society should be able to step in when necessary to correct and impart the necessary information to counteract the wrongs that have already been taught, and perhaps ingrained in young minds.
Abuse a child, whether physically, mentally, psychologically, or in any other way, and I believe that you have lost your freedom and right to be a parent. It is not enough to keep the child clothed and well-fed, but one should also be concerned about the other intangible parts of a child's well-being.
In this society, you receive more training to drive a car than you do to raise a child. And yet, a child's life is far more complex but it is not given as much thought. It is up to society, or rather, to those in the area of the child, to give the appropriate support to safeguard the child. While you or I have been blessed with family members who have raised us well and have taught us right from wrong, many are not. Such as those children from Kansas. Perhaps it would be better to have a communal way to raise children as is done in other parts of the world. Impractical, yes, but the results may be better in the long run.
There is a difference between involvement by government that is not directly affected by the raising of one child, as opposed to the involvement of those in a local community, who would most definitely be affected by the outcome. The local community should bear the burden of making sure that its young members grow up to be worthy members, despite whatever the parents have done.
What constitutes a "ruined" mind?
Date: 2003-10-29 01:23 pm (UTC)If I have a right to believe X, then I should not be prevented from teaching X to my child. Period.
To allow the government to prohibit teaching children a particular belief (however misguided the belief), is one step closer to allowing the government to prohibit the belief itself, thus violating the absolute sanctity of one's own mind.
Government's proper sphere of control is over actions, not over ideas. And then only insofar as we give the government the power to control us.
I'll refrain from quoting Voltaire again, but the fact is, however much we may disagree with what the parents may be teaching those children, they have an absolute right to teach them that, and to deny that sets an extremely dangerous precedent.
Re: What constitutes a "ruined" mind?
Date: 2003-10-29 02:26 pm (UTC)Thus, if a child is taught to believe that killing people is right and that killing anyone in the way is acceptable, and as a direct result of those beliefs, the child kills another human being, are those beliefs acceptable?
And why should I, a mostly law abiding member of society, have to live in fear of the beliefs that are taught to those children? Beliefs more often than not beget actions that are related to them.
A child that will hold a sign that demonstrates hatred towards a certain group of people will most likely continue to hold that belief until such time as he or she is taught otherwise (this is where society comes in), or that belief may make the child escalate to a level of violence far beyond the original teachings. There is a good chance that the Kansas children will continue to maintain the beliefs with which they are being brainwashed, simply because they are not exposed to the outside world. Why should the rest of us allow for such ignorance to stand without doing something about it?
There are certain areas where the rights of the individual should be modified for the good of all other individuals in society. A dangerous precedent is only set if the modification is controlled by only a few and not by all members of society. There are acceptable mores that have been adopted throughout civilization, and they were adopted by groups of individuals rather than by individuals alone.
Oh, there are no absolutes in this world. Only areas of gray.
Re: What constitutes a "ruined" mind?
Date: 2003-10-29 03:33 pm (UTC)But I think the time has come to stop debating in
Re: What constitutes a "ruined" mind?
Date: 2003-10-29 04:25 pm (UTC)Re: What constitutes a "ruined" mind?
Live by the sword... (Part I)
Date: 2003-10-30 07:11 am (UTC)I'd just like to say that I agree that the gay bashers in question do appear to be one sorry bunch of people. They are certainly exhibiting a virulent form of collectivism -- which is pretty close to the root of evil in the world today. Here these people are, not content to say that homosexuality is wrong and that they believe it to be immoral to act on this orientation, but they actually go so far as to claim that gay people, because of who they are, are intrinsically evil and un-human, and thus not deserving of respect. Certainly this is a poisonous idea. Nevertheless, I'm going to have to agree with
minstrel70 when it comes to "what to do about it" -- the scoundrels haven't done anything actionable yet.
The problem with
mysticblaze's argument, is that he is falling for the same fallacies espoused by the people whose teaching he rejects. Yes, teaching is an action, so is breathing. Do other humans have any authority to license and regulate your breathing for you just because it is an action and not an abstract thought? The point here is that the criterion is not merely a question of the distinction between action and thought alone, but between actions that are peaceful and voluntary and actions that actually initiate real force. Absent the actual initiation or threat of real force the law lacks any moral authority to act.
Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 07:12 am (UTC)The last paragraph also contains some ideas with which I must contend. The first such idea is that rights must be limited. Untrue. Rights are absolute, or they are not rights at all. The second idea is that somehow a democratic tyranny is acceptable while a despotic tyranny is not.
minstrel70 is right, a dangerous precedent is set whether rights are violated in the name of a minority or a majority. Ten thousand Irishmen can be wrong, and might does not make right. It is not a wise trade to exchange one tyrant three thousand miles away for three thousand tyrants one mile away. This clammoring for "society" to control, not just the actions, but the thoughts of individuals betrays a substantial lack of faith in one's own ideas. Thomas Jefferson said it best: "It is error alone which needs the support of government. Truth can stand by itself." Society does not think, only individuals do. Turning society into government and giving it the power to regulate the thoughts of individuals only serves to quash all thinking by individuals equally. Approximately two hundred million people in the former Soviet Union were murdered in the twentieth century for want of understanding that lesson. Do we really want to go down that road?
Re: Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 08:39 am (UTC)I don't know if I agree with this--we limit rights all the time. The First Amendment has many restrictions on it (pornography, can't-yell-fire-in-a-crowded-theater, libel, etc.), as does the Second.
(FYI, mysticblaze is a she. And welcome!)
Re: Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 09:03 am (UTC)The speech protected by the First Amendment is the right to political speech. Your examples are not political in nature, and are examples properly restricted in the interest of public safety and decorum.
The restrictions placed on the Second Amendment right would open a whole new can of worms if brought into discussion here, but suffice it to say that Amendment is predicated on the right to self-defense, which is clearly inalienable.
Re: Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 09:18 am (UTC)Re: Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 09:10 am (UTC)It is true that "we" limit rights all the time. The better word is "infringe." I put it to you that the "can't-yell-fire-in-a-crowded-theater" analogy is a bad one, since it is not the speech itself, the content, that is criminalized, but rather the effects of the speech that are criminal. To understand this, consider what would have happened in the hypothetical case if there had been a real fire. The "speaker" would not be prosecuted, yet the content of his speech remained the same. Conversely, if you get up and recite the Gettysburg Address you can also be arrested, not for speaking your mind in a theater, but for disturbing the peace and violating the property rights of the theater owner and his patrons. Rights are absolute and non-contradictory, or else they cannot be considered rights, according to the classical definition. Cases where rights appear to be non-absolute or contradictory are merely cases of misidentification and mis-definition.
As for the pornography problem, that is merely a failure to enforce property rights effectively, not a good example of the "legitimate authority" to infringe the rights of free speech and expression. The case of libel is more accurately defined as fraud, and should be treated accordingly. As for the second amendment, that issue is another whole complex jumbo can of worms which would need to be carefully unpacked before we could even begin to discuss it rationally. If you want a long involved debate on it, we could, but I think it would dwarf the current debate, so here is probably not the place.
I commend [Unknown site tag] on his choice of friends. You're interesting people.
Re: Live by the sword... (Part II)
Date: 2003-10-30 02:56 pm (UTC)I was quite surprised when I finally made it back to my office late this afternoon (read 4:30 pm EST) to find that this discussion had continued after my last comment. I will definitely respond to your comments, but it will have to wait a short while until I catch up on some of the work that has piled up on my desk.
Your comments are quite intriguing, and I look forward to crafting my responses to them. :)