Anna Nicole

[ceebeegee]

So, as Alex posted, Anna Nicole Smith has died. I've always been sort of a closet admirer of hers--she was flippin' beautiful when she was modeling in the early '90s, just this big gorgeous woman. And she obviously adored her son. I've found her pretty harmless--yeah, she didn't seem too intelligent but she seemed to have a good heart. One thing that really irked me was how much criticism she got for marrying this much older rich guy--as if, by definition, her motives were suspect. For one thing she refused to marry him until she'd established her modeling career--they met when she was still a stripper and he was all over her but she held off until later on, so that says she has integrity to me. And why is marrying for money so reviled , and yet it's fine and dandy for a guy to marry a woman 60+ years younger? Marrying for sex/trophy wife or for money (I don't really approve of either)--either way it ain't love and certainly his motives should've been as suspect as hers. I personally don't care why they married but the double standard pisses me off.

Bless her heart. She's had a horrible year and I wouldn't be at all surprised if this turned out to be suicide. I hope she's at peace.

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[ceebeegee.livejournal.com]

WRT to ANS's situation, it definitely was. She was pilloried for that marriage and everyone just patted her husband on the back.

Also the reverse scenario is much more unusual--it is fairly common for men to be older, even significantly older, than their wives (hence the term trophy wife), so I think it's difficult to characterize attitudes about them. Certainly I remember Liz Taylor getting snickers for her marriage to Larry Fortensky, and Joan Collins for her marriage to a younger guy. The general tone seemed to be "you're fools because why would a younger guy want an older woman? Of course he's only marrying you for your money--he couldn't possibly want you sexually." And since the scenario of a man marrying a much older woman IS so rare, it is seen as suspect. Whereas the reverse is much more common--look at Jack Nicholson, Harrison Ford, etc. etc.--it's not seen as weird or unnatural.