Do I wake or sleep?

I can see your point, and true online dating is populated by mostly males. I don't really do it anymore, at least not actively. On some sites though you may be surprised at the close ratio. I have encountered a lot of women who clearly want a guy who makes a lot of money and works for some corporate anagram. I think the point I really wanted to make was the last thing I wrote. I really do thing women graviate toward guys who treat them like shit. Sometimes I joke that I wish I could just be a complete prick because then perhaps things would be simpler.